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What does it mean when your so doesn't care if you're crying or in pain?

Anonymous
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My DH doesn't seem to give a rat's ass how hurt I am over what he says or does anymore.

He's been extremely rude and aggressive towards me, for a few months now. He's also so distant and cold. If I show any sign of anger or hurt over what he says or how he makes me feel- he immediately gets on the defensive and somehow makes me feel like I'm just "playing victim" he's really good at manipulating me to make me feel like I'm just over reacting or I'm crazy. But I'm starting to realize that isn't the case. Something is SERIOUSLY wrong with him. Something is different. I can see it in his attitude, his posture, his reactions, and just the way he is, over all.
Before he would comfort me and take responsibility for his actions or words... But now its like he can give a shit how I feel. Like he doesn't care anymore. I've tried to ask him what was going on and just like every other time, he found a way to pin it all on me. It just doesn't make sense. Any advice, opinions, suggestions?
I'm so lost here. :/ I feel lonely and neglected.
*only time he wants to be "close" and "lovey dovey" is when he wants sex. That's it.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 26, 2014 at 5:00 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 26, 2014 at 5:01 AM
Bump
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 26, 2014 at 5:03 AM
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Is he cheating?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 26, 2014 at 5:04 AM
I would act exactly how he is and see if he cares.
bluefirewolf
by Bronze Member on Jul. 26, 2014 at 5:06 AM
time to get a divoce
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 26, 2014 at 5:08 AM
I hope not.

Quoting Anonymous: Is he cheating?
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 26, 2014 at 5:08 AM
You think?

Quoting bluefirewolf: time to get a divoce
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 26, 2014 at 5:09 AM
Why are you crying all the time? Illness?
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 26, 2014 at 5:09 AM
Honestly. I don't think be would. The only thing that would really effect him is if I stopped giving him sex...

Quoting Anonymous: I would act exactly how he is and see if he cares.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 26, 2014 at 5:11 AM
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He's cheating, and found the woman he wants to be with. Sorry, but men don't just start acting like shit for no reason. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 26, 2014 at 5:11 AM
I would say stop giving him sex, but if you're not giving it to him he might try to find it somewhere else.



Quoting Anonymous: Honestly. I don't think be would. The only thing that would really effect him is if I stopped giving him sex...

Quoting Anonymous: I would act exactly how he is and see if he cares.
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