I see a lot of post from women who are with men being mean or abusive * Or that are just jerks* and just needing some support for a change and in turn - that brings on a LOT Of mean women telling them they are stupid for sticking around and why did they even get with them in the fist place. THAT is what always gets me- why'd you get with him in the first place" or "divorce"
**There is always exceptions to every situation. I'm sure I'll not make room for every situation etc...**
#1. There are Plenty of Gal's who follow all the perfect life guidlines and live "right" School,marriage,house&car&good income THEN kids. Married the perfect person and all of that happy stuff. THEN something happens. Either the man losses someone they are close to ,losses a job or get injured in some way that will effect them for life or set them back, they are military and get PTSD or Maybe something personal happens & they are too ashamed to talk about it (( walking home,gets gang raped in an alley-99% of men would never talk about it to anyone)) Several mental illneses are triggered by events in life-so they could be perfectly fine or normal until such event. Maybe something happened in life to cause depression or something and they turned to drinking or drugs and THAT is what caused Said perfect man to suddenly become the bad guy. Could have been Mr.Perfect for the first 40 years of life without a single hint of being anything other than wonderful.
Did any of you ever once stop to think of that when these women come on here and ask for advice about their men ? Not all men are Jerks ALWAYS.
Frequently - good ones hit a bad time and we just need help knowing what's going on and how to help them & we turn to a group of women for help, cuz supposedly there's wisdom in groups of others who've lived life and been through things etc.... but there ISN'T if none of them will share and only want to judge and be rude .