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He's moving out because I have sleepover rules. No words

Anonymous
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My son is 22 and has lived at home all through college. He has no curfew. Today he told my DH and I that he's moving out next month. I asked why and he said he wants to be able to sleep with his girlfriend.

Our only rule? She can't sleep here and if he lives here we expect him to sleep here 5 nights a week. So he's now going to have to take out student loans to finance this.

I have no words for how stupid I think this is. I told him that and he just rolled his eyes and said he didn't care and left. Ugh
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 26, 2014 at 12:59 PM
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redneck.crazy
by Gold Member on Jul. 26, 2014 at 1:00 PM
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Eh..he's 22 let him go. If he doesn't like the rules he should move out.

Its what I did when I dislike my parents rules.
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my.sonshine
by Silver Member on Jul. 26, 2014 at 1:01 PM
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hes making the right choice. he is 22. i did the same thing. adults want to feel like adults.
Hubris_Huntsman
by Platinum Member on Jul. 26, 2014 at 1:03 PM
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He should move out regardless.  Time to be an independent man. 

Vesta20
by Silver Member on Jul. 26, 2014 at 1:03 PM
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Get over it.
hyper_bunny
by Gold Member on Jul. 26, 2014 at 1:04 PM
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Be super supportive because yes he's being an absolute dumb ass but telling him this will only make him want it more. Be supportive of his dumb decision and when he comes to you for money to pay them off remind him you suggested he not take them out and make him pay it all himself. He has it really good! He's just being a big baby.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 26, 2014 at 1:04 PM
He still has 1 more year of college

Quoting Hubris_Huntsman:

He should move out regardless.  Time to be an independent man. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 26, 2014 at 1:04 PM
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Bet he'll be back soon!
LAXmom21
by Ruby Member on Jul. 26, 2014 at 1:04 PM
Another freaking repeated post, WTH?
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Hubris_Huntsman
by Platinum Member on Jul. 26, 2014 at 1:04 PM

Same answer.

Quoting Anonymous: He still has 1 more year of college
Quoting Hubris_Huntsman:

He should move out regardless.  Time to be an independent man. 


MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Jul. 26, 2014 at 1:05 PM
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Oh well. Let him spread his wings.
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