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I'm the bad guy because I don't claim them

Anonymous
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So I guess I'm the freaking bad guy here because I don't claim my husband's grandchildren. None of them. Ok my husband is 25 years older than I am. I married him not his children. He has 5 children who are around my age give or take a few years. Anyways, his grandchildren are not "my grandchildren." I'm not their grandmother. I wish he would stop trying to force me to acknowledge them as something they are nothing to me. Every time they are around me, they call me GB. I correct them all the time about this. I've expressed that they should address me as my name. Nothing else. I'm fucking 28 years old. I don't need them to call me that. They have grandmothers biologically. Geez. I'm tired getting looked at and fighting about it with my husband.

Also they try to call my son, who by the way is the same age maybe a month younger than the oldest grandchildren, Uncle. Don't confuse my kid. It's  bullshit that I have to correct them every single time. You would think that after the first time they would learn.

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:33 AM
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PlumbersWife344
by Silver Member on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:35 AM
34 moms liked this
Why did you marry him. You sound so nice.
ajdahd13
by on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:35 AM
8 moms liked this
I'm no help. There's no way I'd even entertain the notion of being with a man that much older than me.

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georgiana5
by Bronze Member on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:35 AM
1 mom liked this

What gb stand for?

BrutalTruth
by urbullyisshowing on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:36 AM
Lol
JoanahLee
by Gold Member on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:37 AM
39 moms liked this

IF you married someone old enough to be your dad your son is just going to have to get used to confusing titles.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:37 AM

 

Quoting PlumbersWife344: Why did you marry him. You sound so nice.

 I married him, not the children or the grandchildren. I already get bad looks from the mother and the biological grandmothers like I'm trying to overtake their "labels" I just want to be left alone and not be nothing to these guys.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:37 AM
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You seem like a bitch.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:38 AM
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you sound like a peach

sburst
by Silver Member on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:38 AM
Wow. You sound like a peach.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:38 AM
Quoting georgiana5:

What gb stand for?

 

Grandma Baylee

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