Just one quick Question

[Anonymous]

what happens if your child comes home and you find out something you wish you hadn't and you can't live with it 

[bluebunnybabe]

I would get them help for any of them.

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

Quoting bluebunnybabe: I would get them help for any of them.

I have tried 

[bluebunnybabe]

Drugs?

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting bluebunnybabe: I would get them help for any of them.

I have tried 

[rachellaree20]

For me meth would be the hardest as well as dealing.  I went down that road and at 19 was in rehab for my addiction to meth.  I will have 2 years clean in the end of September but it definitely wasn't easy and took an unplanned pregnancy to get me to clean myself up and choose a different path in life.  It's hard with addictions because the addict has to want to change and get help and they won't be successful unless they want it for themselves.  Whatever you and your family is going through, I'm sorry and I hope you can help the person with whatever they're struggling with. 

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

Quoting bluebunnybabe: Drugs?

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting bluebunnybabe: I would get them help for any of them.

I have tried 

I thought it was drugs then today we had our second anti-natal appointment  and she is HIV+  and she has fessed up to using meth and smack while pregnant  before. I'm just lost I'm trying to be supportive while firm but i just want to run RUN a mile 

[caito]

I would try to help her for any of them. But I picked dealer, because that's affecting not just herself, but others. 

[bluebunnybabe]

Well, that's quite a mess but I could support her in the health issues but she has to want to stop with the drugs for you to get her help. If she doesn't, there's not much you can do. I'm sorry you're facing all of this.

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting bluebunnybabe: Drugs?

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting bluebunnybabe: I would get them help for any of them.

I have tried 

I thought it was drugs then today we had our second anti-natal appointment  and she is HIV+  and she has fessed up to using meth and smack while pregnant  before. I'm just lost I'm trying to be supportive while firm but i just want to run RUN a mile 

[Anonymous 2]

You forgot the gay.

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

Quoting Anonymous:

You forgot the gay.

No No she is not gay. i would not have an issue with her being gay