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You're not their mom!

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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My gf of six months wants me to let my sons 7 and 5 start calling her mom. I am against this for many reasons one we have only been together a short time and I don't know if it will last. Second I only introduced my kids to her a few months ago she doesn't live with us. I am not opposed to one day down the road if I do get married to someone having her take on the stepmother role but with. A different title. I just don't want my kids calling anyone else mom. Especially this early on she says I'm being rude and hurting her feelings but not allowing her to have a relationship with them. I just want to make sure things are right and take it slow. Am I wrong for this?
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:20 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:21 PM
2 moms liked this
Run.
boricua3177
by on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:21 PM
This.

Quoting Anonymous: Run.
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WifeyC
by Platinum Member on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:21 PM
And do it fast!

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peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:22 PM
Uh no, she is WAY overstepping
Kriskash25
by Kristina on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:22 PM
Wow just wow
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:22 PM
She sounds manipulative. If she was truly understanding of your feelings, she wouldn't push the issue.
bluebunnybabe
by kid crack dealer on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:22 PM
Yep

Quoting Anonymous: Run.
surromama
by Platinum Member on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:23 PM
Wow! Yeah, run!
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cbuck88
by on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:23 PM

 you're not wrong at all! Thats way too soon for them to call her mom! 

critter_boo
by Gold Member on Jul. 27, 2014 at 12:24 PM
Run
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