Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Mom Confessions Mom Confessions

Is this normal Behavior for a man?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
  • 24 Replies
Ok, so I know men are sexual creatures. Women are too.. I don't deny that. But men sometimes confuse the difference between their two heads lol. Joke.

Seriously though. Is it normal for a man to constantly be thinking about sex and only that?
Everytime hubby comes home.. Its a kiss and a boob grab. Everytime I walk by hubby, its an ass spanking or ass grabbing, everytime I lay down for bed, its a playing with my vag. Everytime I change my clothes he demands I shake my ass or my shake my boobs for him. No matter what I'm doing or where I'm at throughout the day, he seems to find me every 10 minutes and makes out with me and or grab some part of my body.
I love that he's so horny for me, but sometimes its like "hey, can I maybe get a hug, a kiss, or a... Hi babe, how's your day"? Or "wow you look beautiful" instead of sexy, hot, slutty... Blah blah. So forth.

He also loves to call me slut when he's doing the while boob grabbing or ass grabbing thing. Like "yeah baby, you're my slut!"
Idk. Sometimes I feel like I'm just a piece of meat to him. Like its all about the physical.. Not about the mental or emotional. I've talked to him about that and he says that's just the way he is. He's a horny guy with a high sex drive and he's always hot and ready for his sexy wife. Sometimes he'll say "sorry, I'm so turned on by your body" or "SORRY I have a hot ass wife"
I get it. I do. He just isn't understanding my womanly needs. I mean, he's completely aware of them; he knows the way a woman works but for some reason he doesn't understand how important it is that I also have my emotional needs met. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think he's being selfish.
Anyway.. Back to the question. Is this normal behavior for a man or is my man more sex hungry than most??

Oh, also. My husband was exposed to pornography at, what I think, is a young age. He was 11. He got extremely hooked and was addicted all throughout high school. He watched less and less as he got older and doesn't watch it anymore from what I know of. He said the fantasy of it all got old. But sometimes I think porn really screwed with his head!! Just like the way years of drug use can effect your mental state I think porn does the same thing. He has unrealistic expectations and it seems like the emotional aspect of a relationship is completely void to him.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 28, 2014 at 2:23 AM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies (1-10):
angelenia
by Gold Member on Jul. 28, 2014 at 2:27 AM
He is a selfish douche nozzle
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 28, 2014 at 2:27 AM
I don't know...my husband is the exact same way. Here's a bump
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 28, 2014 at 2:28 AM
Lol thank you !

Quoting angelenia: He is a selfish douche nozzle
PinkButterfly66
by Emerald Member on Jul. 28, 2014 at 2:29 AM

No, I've never ever experienced that.  He sounds like a real asshole.

ballerossandra
by Silver Member on Jul. 28, 2014 at 2:30 AM
I don't know. I like that behavior as I'm a sex freak
elzmnsf
by Gold Member on Jul. 28, 2014 at 2:31 AM

I was thinking it was all good til the slut thing. Some people like that brand of teasing, if you don't he should knock it off. But there are worse things than having your hubby hot for you without the name. I love that after all this time my dh still likes to grab my ass and all that. Sometimes it's annoying but I don't discourage it because I think I would be sad if it ever stopped all together. And my 20 year old ass was way hotter than my 34 year old one and he still likes it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 28, 2014 at 2:33 AM
He was addicted to porn at one point in his life so I'm assuming it has something to do with it

Quoting elzmnsf:

I was thinking it was all good til the slut thing. Some people like that brand of teasing, if you don't he should knock it off. But there are worse things than having your hubby hot for you without the name. I love that after all this time my dh still likes to grab my ass and all that. Sometimes it's annoying but I don't discourage it because I think I would be sad if it ever stopped all together. And my 20 year old ass was way hotter than my 34 year old one and he still likes it.

elzmnsf
by Gold Member on Jul. 28, 2014 at 2:35 AM


Quoting Anonymous: He was addicted to porn at one point in his life so I'm assuming it has something to do with it
Quoting elzmnsf:

I was thinking it was all good til the slut thing. Some people like that brand of teasing, if you don't he should knock it off. But there are worse things than having your hubby hot for you without the name. I love that after all this time my dh still likes to grab my ass and all that. Sometimes it's annoying but I don't discourage it because I think I would be sad if it ever stopped all together. And my 20 year old ass was way hotter than my 34 year old one and he still likes it.

Must be. My dh doesn't have that history either... 

tntmom1027
by Bronze Member on Jul. 28, 2014 at 2:39 AM

My husband is nearly the exact same way...and he doesn't like porn and never has. 

Him telling you that your his "Hot ass wife" is his way of telling you that you are beautiful. 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 28, 2014 at 2:44 AM
My hubby is very similar. He is very grabby and always kisses/touches me when he can. But he doesn't do I exec overly though it is at LEAST 2 times a day usually way more then that. But he also calls me beautiful and things along those lines. But he can also tell when it is annoying me and will back off but other then grabbing I do get lots if hugs and cuddles
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

close Join now to connect to
other members!
Connect with Facebook or Sign Up Using Email

Already Joined? LOG IN