Seriously though. Is it normal for a man to constantly be thinking about sex and only that?
Everytime hubby comes home.. Its a kiss and a boob grab. Everytime I walk by hubby, its an ass spanking or ass grabbing, everytime I lay down for bed, its a playing with my vag. Everytime I change my clothes he demands I shake my ass or my shake my boobs for him. No matter what I'm doing or where I'm at throughout the day, he seems to find me every 10 minutes and makes out with me and or grab some part of my body.
I love that he's so horny for me, but sometimes its like "hey, can I maybe get a hug, a kiss, or a... Hi babe, how's your day"? Or "wow you look beautiful" instead of sexy, hot, slutty... Blah blah. So forth.
He also loves to call me slut when he's doing the while boob grabbing or ass grabbing thing. Like "yeah baby, you're my slut!"
Idk. Sometimes I feel like I'm just a piece of meat to him. Like its all about the physical.. Not about the mental or emotional. I've talked to him about that and he says that's just the way he is. He's a horny guy with a high sex drive and he's always hot and ready for his sexy wife. Sometimes he'll say "sorry, I'm so turned on by your body" or "SORRY I have a hot ass wife"
I get it. I do. He just isn't understanding my womanly needs. I mean, he's completely aware of them; he knows the way a woman works but for some reason he doesn't understand how important it is that I also have my emotional needs met. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think he's being selfish.
Anyway.. Back to the question. Is this normal behavior for a man or is my man more sex hungry than most??
Oh, also. My husband was exposed to pornography at, what I think, is a young age. He was 11. He got extremely hooked and was addicted all throughout high school. He watched less and less as he got older and doesn't watch it anymore from what I know of. He said the fantasy of it all got old. But sometimes I think porn really screwed with his head!! Just like the way years of drug use can effect your mental state I think porn does the same thing. He has unrealistic expectations and it seems like the emotional aspect of a relationship is completely void to him.