So, my husband and I have been having some major issues. We've been fighting non stop for about six months. Well, I've had this feeling that he's been cheating on me, because he won't touch me anymore. He swore that he was going to go to the doctor and get checked for Low Testosterone and erectile dysfunction, but I wasn't buying the excuses.
Well, he came home from work yesterday evening and confessed to me that he's been seeing a woman from work for 5 months now. I was upset, I'm not going to lie, but I was already kind of expecting it. Then, he dropped the bombshell. He said that we were both miserable and I had no income or no place to go, so moving out for me wasn't an option. He wanted to know if he could move his girlfriend in! Apparently, the lease is up on her townhouse and she couldn't renew. I didn't know what to say. Do I even have an option? He owns the house. I just left the room and went to bed and cried myself to sleep.
Today I got to thinking about the advantages. We have a two story home and I could just stay in the bedroom upstairs and they could sleep in the one downstairs. We won't have to hear each other and blah blah. She can help out around the house and help with the children while I go back to work and get enough money to move out. That's the only option I can see. Am I crazy for thinking of allowing this?