A single/unwed family member recently had a baby. Her pregnancy was a scandal all on its own, but the biggest shock of all was when he came out with black hair and dark skin. I guess everyone was expecting a white baby or something, lol. It honestly doesn't bother me, and I never even thought about it 'till my mother pointed it out. She said something to the affect of, "did you notice so-and-so's baby is Mexican?" I tried my best to deflect, but my mom said she's not racist or anything...just pointing it out. Ok, I can see how someone of her generation would think it's acceptable to point it out at least once. But it didn't stop there. Every single time the subject of so-and-so comes up, my mom feels the need to point out the fact that her baby's Mexican. And no matter how many times I tell her to cut it out, she tries to make it out like it was relevant to the conversation, and it doesn't make her racist.
I'm about ready to slap her the next time she does it.