Okay, this will be a little long, so I'll highlight key parts.. But I need to know some opinions.
My daughters dad has been seeing this girl since before my daughter was born. (shortly after pregnancy) At first, her dad was "halfass" then when I started being mean, he started being faithful to her. Every other weekend. Well, for the next two years, his gf acts like she's a better mom, etc. (I mean, I'm not just disgruntled, she has literally said so before... which is funny, because everyone says the opposite) lol
Okay. So.. Last year, Feb 15th.. Her dad randomly says they are moving to Florida THAT DAY. And, my daughter, at this point hadn't seen him since November, aside of Christmas evening. So, I encouraged that she go, cause she had been asking why he didn't see her. She saw them for half a month then, and almost a month during the Summer.
Now, the entire time they were in Florida. (Feb '13-June'14.) they didn't call her once to check up on her. They didn't ask about her.
Her dad called the day before her birthday and then on her birthday, but that was it.
Okay. So the bottom line is.. Her dads girlfriend keeps telling her that she is her step mom.. I keep saying no.
They aren't married... and frankly, if she had thought about my baby when she was away from her.. then.. I would have allowed it. I wouldn't base it off of a technicality if she had been there 100% as much as she could.
Today.. My baby kept asking me if his girlfriend was her stepmom in front of her.
And, I said.. "No baby, she's not married to your dad, so she's not your step mom yet." The ENTIRE time I'm saying this... His GF is shaking her head yes.
There is a bit more, that I could update.. (It's the part that actually gets a little amusing).