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dh said i look chubby *edit i am not 504

Anonymous
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I sent this picture to dh because he's working, and i was feeling good about myself. He sent a text back saying, " why did you send this, no offense but you look pretty chubby in this picture" Im really upset right now, because I've lost so much weight, and was finally thinking that i looked good. I guess he was just being honest, but I'm still hurt. Should i tell him how it made me feel, or respect his opinion?

* i haven't been back on because i fell asleep last night, and had to take my oldest three to high school for their books and lockers. I am not Jena, i live in Arizona, I'm pale white. This wasn't an attention seeking post. I was feeling bad about what dh said, i had nowhere else to vent, or get opinions, so i came on here. Thank you to the sweet ladies on here for your encouragement and advice. I set up a counseling appointment for myself to work on my self-esteem, and also one for marriage counseling.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:38 AM
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uhhnogirl
by Platinum Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:40 AM
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Wtf? You don't look chubby at all.

Tell him when he's being a dick.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:40 AM
Yes tell him how you feel.

On a side note those clothes don't flatter you (yes I know they're probably pajamas)

Also hold out on sex for a few days. :0)
KristenFowles
by Ruby Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:41 AM
Um.. Ass hole!!

No offense?? Seriously?!

Are you rail thin? No.

But chubby?? No.
ame85
by Chemistry cat on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:41 AM
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"That's too bad, I was actually thinking the opposite about your dick."
KristenFowles
by Ruby Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:42 AM
Definitely tell him it hurt your feelings..

He's your husband.. He needs to bring you up... Not push you down. And vice versa.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:42 AM
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I'd love to have that waistline. You look great.
He's a dick. Tell him he has a bald spot or something.
teenkabear
by Silver Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:42 AM
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You don't look chubby, and I think he's an asshole.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:42 AM
I just feel like giving up. I've had 8 kids, I'll never be stick thin ever again.

Quoting Anonymous: Yes tell him how you feel.

On a side note those clothes don't flatter you (yes I know they're probably pajamas)

Also hold out on sex for a few days. :0)
uhhnogirl
by Platinum Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:44 AM
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YOU LOOK LIKE THAT AFTER 8 KIDS?!? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? I fucking hate you.

Quoting Anonymous: I just feel like giving up. I've had 8 kids, I'll never be stick thin ever again.

Quoting Anonymous: Yes tell him how you feel.

On a side note those clothes don't flatter you (yes I know they're probably pajamas)

Also hold out on sex for a few days. :0)
redneck.crazy
by Gold Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:44 AM
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I wish I was as "chubby" as you. You look great momma.

If you're chubby im a damn elephant.
Tell him to go change his tampon and eat a snickers because he turns into a bitch when he's hungry.
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