I sent this picture to dh because he's working, and i was feeling good about myself. He sent a text back saying, " why did you send this, no offense but you look pretty chubby in this picture" Im really upset right now, because I've lost so much weight, and was finally thinking that i looked good. I guess he was just being honest, but I'm still hurt. Should i tell him how it made me feel, or respect his opinion?
* i haven't been back on because i fell asleep last night, and had to take my oldest three to high school for their books and lockers. I am not Jena, i live in Arizona, I'm pale white. This wasn't an attention seeking post. I was feeling bad about what dh said, i had nowhere else to vent, or get opinions, so i came on here. Thank you to the sweet ladies on here for your encouragement and advice. I set up a counseling appointment for myself to work on my self-esteem, and also one for marriage counseling.