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Whst do you think of this question? is it too personal?

Anonymous
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A female relative starts talking about birth control (she recently had a baby) and asks you what type, if any, are you using since you also recently had a baby. She then asks you this...verbatim:

"Does your bf take care of you?"
---confused face----
"I mean does he pull out before coming?"

0.o

Mind you, this is not a close relative...
How would you have handled it?
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 30, 2014 at 6:11 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 30, 2014 at 6:15 AM
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I would have given her a LOOK and changed the subject. How inappropriate!

I remember when we told my NOW EX mil that I was pregnant, her very first words were, "You're not on birth control?!"
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 30, 2014 at 6:15 AM
Just say I'm sorry I can't help you because you have to know what's right for your body.I'm not a obgyn if you can't decide Google it but try a condom first if it pop try two if that pop try 3.lmao
La_Vie_en_R0se
by Gold Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 6:16 AM
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I would have laughed and told her that pulling out is not a reliable method and not to count on it! 

Qzx
by Silver Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 6:17 AM
I'm fairly open, it may have surprised me a bit but I'd have answered her question.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 30, 2014 at 6:19 AM
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Lmao! That's exactly what I did! Her face turned beet red lol

Quoting La_Vie_en_R0se:

I would have laughed and told her that pulling out is not a reliable method and not to count on it! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 30, 2014 at 6:24 AM
I would just change the subject but I would have done that when I was first asked my bc
Yellow_Lileigh
by Gold Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 6:24 AM
Yes, that is a ridiculously personal question from someone you're not close too. I probably would've laughed from the shock and said something like, "Serioualy??" Followed by PP's comment about the pull out "method".
Yellow_Lileigh
by Gold Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 6:26 AM
Good grief. Do some people just never think at all before they speak?

Quoting Anonymous: I would have given her a LOOK and changed the subject. How inappropriate!

I remember when we told my NOW EX mil that I was pregnant, her very first words were, "You're not on birth control?!"
tossed
by Platinum Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 6:26 AM

I would have said that I don't feel comfortable talking about my bc method with anyone but my dh and doctor. 

Loveavision
by Gold Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 6:27 AM
I'd probably have just laughed. What an odd way to say pulling out XD
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