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people who were molested shouldnt be around kids

Anonymous
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Its been said that people who were molested are most likely to molest as well.
SO would you be in arelationship with someone who was molested?
Do you think men are more likely to sexually abuse compared to women
Do you think someone who was abused would let a child be abused even if it wasnt by them
Should people with sexual abuse history have children? e
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 30, 2014 at 1:28 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:01 PM

 I don't believe that. Some people do go on and molest kids after growing up with that. I wouldn't shun a possible partner because of it. I think both genders are equally likely to sexually abuse children. I know plenty of people who were molested and went on to have kids.

Jessy613
by Diamond Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:02 PM

I don't agree. Not everyone turns into a child molester just because they had their innocence taken away from them when they were molested.

People have choices.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:02 PM
Id be hesitant about getting with a guy who.was molested. Or maybe it depends on how they react n feel about it now
rfhsure
by beast mode on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:03 PM
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No. That's doing molestation victims a huge disservice and alienating them in a way that is completely unfair. They're still people. Many go on to have normal lives and become excellent parents. Just because it increases the likelihood of doing it doesn't guarantee that a person will.
DrunkenFaeGirl
by on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:03 PM
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Anyone could be an abuser reguardless of their backrgound.  I would not hold a past as a victim against and adult, no.  That's just victimizing them in a new way.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:04 PM
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I know victims that have gone on to have children and they're wonderful mothers.  They have their demons, but it doesn't effect their parenting skills.

WhiteRose24
by Silver Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:04 PM
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I was raped as a child. I am very protective of my children and trust no one with them. I would never hurt my children or anyone's children.
KairisMama
by Emerald Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:05 PM
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My husband was molested at age 5. He's a terrific man and father.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:05 PM
I was molested and I have 2 soon to be 3 kids and never in my most fucked up dreams would I do that.
Mommy2Bri425
by on Jul. 30, 2014 at 3:06 PM

Why are there random letters in your post?

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