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Did you "know" he was cheating?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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According to your "gut instincts"? If so, did it prove true?

They say a woman/wife/mother should ALWAYS follow her instincts. If this is true, then my DH is definitely cheating because I've never had a "feeling" this strong before. I feel it in my gut! Kind of weird how that happens. Anyway, how should I go about this? Do I wait it out, do I talk to him about it, do I investigate..?
He's cheated before, years ago. He says he's changed, which I can tell, he has matured a lot but even the most mature men can deceive.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 30, 2014 at 4:12 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 30, 2014 at 4:12 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 30, 2014 at 4:13 PM

I'd investigate and get some kind of proof before confronting him.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 30, 2014 at 4:14 PM
Follow your instincts
weeping_angel
by Don't Blink on Jul. 30, 2014 at 4:14 PM
Instincts.
RaynesMommy07
by Ruby Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 4:16 PM
Never had a gut feeling. Never been cheated on to my knowledge.
corticosteroid
by Sapphire Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 4:16 PM

Got any proof whatsoever?

jewels.unicorn
by Bronze Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 4:17 PM

 Instincts for sure. Your gut usually doesn't steer you wrong when it comes to that.

See what you can find out first though, take a little time to build your case.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 30, 2014 at 4:17 PM
Follow your gut! I had a feeling and he was!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jul. 30, 2014 at 4:17 PM
Gut feeling was always right
TheCupcakeMom
by Bronze Member on Jul. 30, 2014 at 4:18 PM

Yep. Anytime I suspected it, it was true.

I'm not a snooper, I'm not a jealous type of person..... but the very few times I felt a NEED to snoop, I found something happening. 

I would look for the common signs first.... getting mad over touching the phone, coming home late, not responding to your calls/text as quickly as usual, etc..... 

I wouldn't ask or accuse until you know. 

Usually instincts are right.

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