She has a four year old granddaughter who spends a lot of time their. She is the kind of kid who is overly friendly and under supervised. She just walks into my home all the time. She has begun to steal toys from my son. She aggravates my son. She likes to tell him, his friends are going to get in trouble with her grandma, that he doesn't go to school, he is going to get in trouble. All the stuff is bullocks, she is just an instigator. My son is 8, btw. He just sits and takes it because he knows she's just a little girl. Last night he yelled at her and her grandma came over and bit his head off and told him not to talk her that way.
I know he's the older child but she comes to him, to his home just to aggravate him and 90& of the time he takes it. The next day she came in and left with a toy of his. He went outside and yelled at her to give it back. Again grandma yells at him to not talk to her like that. And she didn't make her give the toy back. She has taken toys several other times and we have been very understanding. Ds got frustrated and I don't really blame him. All he said was, hey give that back its mine. He did have an attitude when he said it.
I did talk to ds about not yelling at little kids. He doesn't usually, he is actually usually great with them. Earlier this week they told me at his camp how great he is with the younger kids. Do you think ds and I are wrong? How would you handle this?