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Im not paying you because you have no proof

Anonymous
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I let a friend borrow some money. When i asked her for it, she said no. She then said i wont be paying you and nothing you can do because you have no proof you even gave it to me. What can i do? I gave that money with the intentions of getting it back.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 3, 2014 at 3:43 PM
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Chris030406
by anonsneednotreply on Aug. 3, 2014 at 3:44 PM
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Lesson learned. And she burned that bridge!
Lolabearlow
by Silver Member on Aug. 3, 2014 at 3:45 PM
Kiss it goodbye. Remove her from your life and never lend out money you cannot afford to loose.
belindah
by on Aug. 3, 2014 at 3:46 PM
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They are obviously not a friend.  As for the future, anytime you lend money, plan on not getting it back.

alexsmomaubrys2
by Emerald Member on Aug. 3, 2014 at 3:46 PM


Quoting Chris030406: Lesson learned. And she burned that bridge!



kikibix
by Platinum Member on Aug. 3, 2014 at 3:46 PM

Nothing you can do.  It sucks to learn a "friend" is not really a friend.  Hope it wasn't a lot. 

Bubsy
by Silver Member on Aug. 3, 2014 at 3:46 PM
I don't really think there is anything you can do. Next time either get it in writing or don't loan money.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 3, 2014 at 3:46 PM
We were friends for 8 years. Trust me i didnt think she would do this.

Quoting Lolabearlow: Kiss it goodbye. Remove her from your life and never lend out money you cannot afford to loose.
MIA0223
by Emerald Member on Aug. 3, 2014 at 3:47 PM
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Just learn from it, never lend money you can't afford to just give away because most of the time that's exactly what you will be doing.
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hyper_bunny
by Gold Member on Aug. 3, 2014 at 3:48 PM
That's why I never "lend" money. I just give it to certain friends I know need it. She isn't a friend hun, cut her out and move on. Your Money is gone.
Ginger0104
by Gold Member on Aug. 3, 2014 at 3:48 PM

You never lend money you can't live without getting back.  Ever.  Doesn't matter who it is.

She needs to be out of your life completely. 

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