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So CPS is coming today. **Update!**

Posted by on Aug. 5, 2014 at 2:51 PM
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So far she is an hour late
Annoying.

More annoying?
The fact that they are coming because I defended myself when my ex was trying to attack me while me and the kids and my aunt were in my car ...god knows wtf he thought he was doing/ going to do he was half in my car window and grabbing my steering wheel and attempted to get my car keys.
He was freaking the fuck out.
I tried to drive away didn't work.
So I decked him a few times.
(Hey, I warned him)
That worked.

I drove up the road 100 feet and called the cops.
He was charged with mischief and I got an assault charge.

Wtf.

I suppose I should have just sat there and let God knows what happen?!

Whatever.

So this social worker is supposed to be here an hr ago and I am sitting here waiting.

Like really?
Annoyed.

Annoyed with the whole situation.

This last month has been pure hell.
The threat of him taking my kids hanging over my head.
When they are with their dad I am off working, or trying to anyways.
Most days I haven't even been able to work because all I do is cry.

Ya I know.
You guys are loving this right?

And aside from all the divorce drama and his family drama and the pure BULLSHIT I have been putting up with, I have had bad luck left right and center.

Saturday alone I got a 125$ ticket and then an hr later was parking my car and hit a cement whatever it's called at the bottom of the light pole.

Crunch went my drivers side bumper.
That's going to cost at least the 700 deductible

Friday I broke my phone and had to replace the screen that cost 250

The day before that I got a chemical burn from veet sensitive skin wax strips.

I could go on and on.
It just hasn't let up.

So I am sitting here waiting for this woman and expecting the worst.

I am so broken I am shattered.

This last month has beat the ever loving shit out of me.
I wish god would stop showing me how strong I can be.

****Update****

Well today the ex showed up before the worker got her and as I was making lunch, fine no problem, and the worker shows up and we had a chat.
We discussed the incident and she was very understanding, and definitely on my side.
When my occupation was brought up and him holding it over my head and threatening to take my kids ect she simply told him
" I work with women in the sex trade who are also mom's all the time.
And you know what ? What she does is how she supports herself and the children and it's not an issue with us.
She can work in saskatoon if she likes you cannot dictate what she does.
As long as she is not bringing men home which she doesn't because she is a professional, and obviously a good mom, then there is nothing you can say about it.
The children are not in danger, and you can call us and report her all you like the case will end up closed each time"

Well he wasn't very impressed.

And he was stressing me out so I asked him to leave, and chatted a bit more with the worker.

All is well in my world.

Thank god.
by on Aug. 5, 2014 at 2:51 PM
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nonyobizniz
by Gold Member on Aug. 5, 2014 at 2:52 PM
I don't even have any fight left me
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Aug. 5, 2014 at 2:54 PM
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You did it to yourself.
LoveSubmission
by on Aug. 5, 2014 at 2:55 PM
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Make better choices in life and things will change.
nonyobizniz
by Gold Member on Aug. 5, 2014 at 2:56 PM
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All I can do is thank god I am none of the things so many people like to say I am.

Yea I have a job that gets a lot of hate.
So what, it's legal
And no where near my children.

That is the ONLY thing that could POSSIBLY be used against me.

And they simply can't.


U less of course there is just something horribly wrong with ME as a person.

I do my best to be a good mom, if it's not good enough then I don't know wtf I'm supposed to be doing
LoveSubmission
by on Aug. 5, 2014 at 2:56 PM
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What was the ticket for? Solicitation?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 5, 2014 at 2:56 PM
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Maybe it's a sign from God to change your life.
brittybby2010
by Bronze Member on Aug. 5, 2014 at 2:57 PM
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This is what I tell my clients...

breathe. Think positive thoughts and positive things will come your way. Take a nap when you can, and remember things will work out. 

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southern.momof2
by Pirate on Aug. 5, 2014 at 2:57 PM
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Well, you have to live with the consequences of your choices.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 5, 2014 at 2:57 PM
Wow! Sounds like a hot mess
corticosteroid
by Ruby Member on Aug. 5, 2014 at 2:57 PM

Just breathe.

That which does not kill us and all that jazz.

Keep your head up.

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