I get home from work Saturday night and head down to my neighbor's house to pick up my daughter. Well my friend isn't home, because she's at a concert with her sister that night, but her husband and her kids are.
He asks me if I'd like a drink, so I say sure, because I'm pretty depressed that night. My boyfriend got called out on a fire and I find out he's going to be gone for up to three weeks. So I figured I'd have a couple drinks to try and relax.
Things are going fine, my friend's husband and I are having a conversation and joking around. No big deal, we just got along like that. So, about at about 10, I decide it's time for me to get kiddo and walk home. I'm getting ready to leave and my friend's husband walls over to me and puts his arms around me and starts touching my hair. Wtf?
I had to tell him no at least three times before he would let go of me. All this asshole can say is, "I'm just being silly." Um no..he's trying to take advantage of someone he thinks is drunk (I wasn't) and thinks she'll go for it.
I got my daughter and left as quickly as I could, texting my boyfriend in a panic, trying not to puke. He reassured me that I I'd done the right thing and said I had nothing to be sorry for (I kept apologizing for being there alone and drinking). He was very supportive. He's so wonderful to me, bless him.
Anyway, the next day, after trying to reach her all day, I go back down to my friend's house and ask her to come outside. I told her what happened the night before, and she hugged me and thanked me for telling her and for not going along with her husband. I am relieved that she wasn't mad at me. But I feel horrible because A) I shouldn't have put my self in that kind of situation, and B) This may be the final straw that ends her marriage, even though he's the one at fault. That skeez even had the nerve to blame HER for his behavior.
On top of it all, I'm still getting used to working again, and I miss my man like crazy. I wish he weren't out on this fire, but it's good money. Anyway, this whole situation makes me sick to my stomach. I want to crawl into a hole and never come out.
Sorry for the long rant, I just had to get it out.