My niece is mean, bossy, rude, a tattle tale, a liar, a brat, etc. You can't talk to her without her arguing with you, she always has something to say or ask.....today I told her to get ready because she had to go with me to get my state inspection done for my car, she asked me why? Can I stay here? Why do you have to do it today? Why? Why do I have to go? Then when I got done she asked if she could sit in the front seat, when I told her no it was why? My dad lets me sit in the front seat? Why can't I sit in the front seat? It's illegal? But my dad let's me? When me and fil try to talk, she will stand behind him making faces and moving her hands mocking him, then she argues with me when I tell her to knock it off or tell her to stop being rude. I took her to the park to take her pictures for her mom.....before we even left she was complaining, I can't find my sandals, can you help me find my sandals? I don't want to wear my shoes, the socks feel weird and I don't like it!! Well she couldn't find her sandals so she wore her shoes, when we got ready to leave she asked me to carry her because she didn't want to put her shoes on. Well my oldest dd is a month and a half older then my niece...they are both 9. Today my dd informed me that when my niece tries to kick her out of my mils bedroom she gets physical, my niece will kick my dd, or hit her, push her, hit her with pillows, etc anything to get my dd to leave, I told my dd to hit her back, push her back, hit her with a pillow, and kick her back, so my dd told me that when she does my niece will hit my dd as hard as she can. Dd also told me that once that my niece held her face in the pillows and my dd couldn't breath, so I told my dd that the next time my niece is physical with her to punch her in the face as hard as she can.
I believe my dd because I have seen the "games" my niece makes up, and how she changes the rules so she never loses.....she can't play fair.....my niece has hit my 4yo ds.....she has slammed into my 8yo dd and made her fall on her head, my niece is much bigger than my kids, and I am sick of her attitude.....Thursday can't come soon enough because my niece goes home....but I won't feel bad if my niece goes home with a fat lip or a black eye.