When I was 9 I caught my mother's husband(boyfriend at the time) masturbating to my younger sister's photograph she was 4 years old. He paid me $40 not to tell my mom. I never told her. Two months later I caught him molesting the same sister. He paid me $400 this time and I never told anyone. When my sister was 24 she killed herself, left a long letter about how he molested her from age 4 to age 10 and then suddenly stopped because he "found god" but really it was because she started getting boobs and it turned him off. She said the pain plagued her. Worst yet, she never knew that I knew. I still have never said anything. Mom thinks Sis was just crazy and won't belive she's still married to a monster. I talked to him about it tonight, just the two of us it's been over 20 year since Sis killed herself. He thanked me for not telling anyone he said it would have ruined his life. Never once did he stop and think about how he ruined hers.