My DD married a guy with cancer and now that he is in remission she realizes she doesnt want to be with him....
He did some experimental treatment and he is now cancer free. Everyone was happy at first. Now they have been fighting all the time. They clearly never thought of a future with each other because what she wants is very different than what he wants. DD is realizing that although she does love him the main reason they got married was because he was dying.
She feels like an awful person and I told her that I dont think she is. They moved quickly because they felt they had to and she was there for him through all the good and bad.
ETA: She is at the point where she doesnt want to try to work it out. He wants to move across the country to finish his school (2 years left) and then he wants to travel the world for the rest of his life. My DD wants to stay where she is and finish school (she has another 6+ years left) and settle down and start her own practice. There is no such thing as compromise here because someone would have to give up a lot. Not just every once in awhile. Either my DD has to travel and miss out on opportunities and experience or her DH would have to not travel like he wants.