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rape and orgasms

Anonymous
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just because I had an orgasm when I was raped does not mean I consented. I could not control my body!

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 9, 2014 at 3:37 PM
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Hanab818
by Ruby Member on Aug. 9, 2014 at 3:38 PM
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I'm sorry:(

It's sad that people need to be reminded of that.
lucky2Beeme
by Ruby Member on Aug. 9, 2014 at 3:40 PM
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steps backwards

Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Aug. 9, 2014 at 3:41 PM
Oh God, I couldn't imagine. I'm so sorry.
504bbymami
by Sapphire Member on Aug. 9, 2014 at 3:43 PM
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I don't understand how that happens, personally.

I know they say it's a natural response or whatever ... But idk. Just doesn't make sense to me.

It sure as hell wasn't like that for me when I was raped. Everyone's different I guess.


I CANT just orgasm willy nilly. I have to want to. I can not even fathom orgasming or getting wet or any of that during rape. My body shuts up. Cuz I don't want it.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 9, 2014 at 3:44 PM
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this is true, and a great cause of guilt for many victims.

mommyof24ever
by Bronze Member on Aug. 9, 2014 at 3:44 PM
Wow....didn't know someone could get one If raped.....srry momma.....big hugs....that would be really aweful.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 9, 2014 at 3:46 PM

It took me years to get over that guilt.

Quoting Anonymous:

this is true, and a great cause of guilt for many victims.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 9, 2014 at 3:48 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

It took me years to get over that guilt.

Quoting Anonymous:

this is true, and a great cause of guilt for many victims.


good for you!  and you are right: seperating the physical. physiological responses of the body from the emotional is so critical.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 9, 2014 at 3:48 PM
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How can someone have an orgssm during VIOLENCE ? Rape is violence. I was under the impression you only orgasm as a result of pleasure ??? I'm not sure about this. Really.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 9, 2014 at 3:50 PM
I agree with this.

Quoting 504bbymami: I don't understand how that happens, personally.

I know they say it's a natural response or whatever ... But idk. Just doesn't make sense to me.

It sure as hell wasn't like that for me when I was raped. Everyone's different I guess.


I CANT just orgasm willy nilly. I have to want to. I can not even fathom orgasming or getting wet or any of that during rape. My body shuts up. Cuz I don't want it.
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