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Was i wrong or not?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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I am having a baby on January 21 by a c-section and i told my DH that i want the 1st day that i am in the hospital just be for me and the baby not to mention i will be on alot of pain killers and i will just want to rest and no have TONS of people coming and going all day long...

my DH told me that isnt fair his family should be able to be there when they want to be there... I dont want them there for the 1st day at all am i wrong to want this???

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 9, 2014 at 5:02 PM
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hismommy2010
by on Aug. 9, 2014 at 5:03 PM
You are not wrong. And u can actually tell the hospital your wishes and they will abide by it
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 9, 2014 at 5:03 PM
No. If hes anything like my dh he wont listen. I told him the same thing but everyone gathered in the waiting room while i was giving birth
uatw14
by Member on Aug. 9, 2014 at 5:04 PM
You will have just had a baby. Whatever you want at that time is right. His family nor your family have a "right" to anything where your baby is concerned.

I think you were right.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 9, 2014 at 5:05 PM

your first??

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 9, 2014 at 5:06 PM
Its selfish of you
BrownEyedGirl86
by Silver Member on Aug. 9, 2014 at 5:06 PM
My dh didn't want anyone but immediately family visiting us in the hospital. I don't speak to my parents or sisters and his dad wouldn't come without his wife. So it was just mil and our older children that were there.
KRIZZ25
by Gold Member on Aug. 9, 2014 at 5:07 PM
tell the hospital ..let them know and ur friends and family know .
KANDI0824
by on Aug. 9, 2014 at 5:08 PM
Its not wrong !
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 9, 2014 at 5:09 PM

no its my 4th

Quoting Anonymous:

your first??


mischele
by Bronze Member on Aug. 9, 2014 at 5:09 PM
It's not selfish to want one day to be just for u guys. It's kinda selfish of him pushing his family. U could allow them into visiting area and DH could take baby out there for a few mins.
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