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I'm lying to my husband about money

Anonymous
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I've been in talks with 3 contractors to add a second story addition plus master bathroom and vanity room addition. My husband is reluctant to change and spending money so I went behind his back. I used a equity loan and took another personal loan ($260,00 in total) to pay. Hopefully this works well for me and my marriage.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:01 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:02 PM
It will not work well for your marraige. I hope you have a job...
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:03 PM
Yes I am employed. Been with the same company for 13 years.

Quoting Anonymous: It will not work well for your marraige. I hope you have a job...
maybebaby83
by Bronze Member on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:03 PM
Yes, sounds like it will totally help your marriage.
graybealgirl
by Platinum Member on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:05 PM
Hope you have a good divorce.lawyer
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:07 PM
I lie to my husband also, like he has no clue about the 401k and additional IRA I have and have had since before we married. But I could never ever in a million years go behind his back and pull that large of a loan out without first really, REALLY discussing it together, and seeing if there were other, more financially practical means first.

How do you plan on explaining it to him when contractors start showing up?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:08 PM

Damn. The trolls are really scraping the bottom of the barrel for original material tonight. Try again, honey.

sarastanley88
by on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:20 PM
How much?
Hubris_Huntsman
by on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:23 PM
Bwahahaha. Don't worry, he'll never find out.
MamaMindy31
by on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:26 PM
If this is real, get your umbrella ready and clinch your ass because the shit is gonna hit the fan in your marriage. In no way shape or form is that acceptable.
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