I haven't yet but my mom is ill and I know it won't be long. I already have guilt merely for being a person who is going to receive a life changing amount of money. My dad was a very successful architect who treated my mom like a queen. My mom has recently started giving me very expensive pieces of jewelry of hers when we spend time. It hurts because I know she's doing it cause she's dying and she wants to see the look on my face cause I was always her favorite.
Also more and more she has wanted to profess to me that I am the sparkle in her eye, her best accomplishment, etc. I've told her that although it's really nice to hear it breaks my heart and makes me feel awkward. She just tell me that I'm being too humble and that dad spoiled us in life and would always want to see me spoiled with his earnings now.
So how can I be okay with the fact that my daddy wanted my mom and us to live a good life using his money??