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Anonymous
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My friend opened up to me about her depression and how bad it had gotten for her, suicidal thoughts.

She had written out the notes she would leave her children.

She only had thoughts. She never attempted anything.
She realized she needed help. Scheduled doctors appointment and got put on medicine.

After all this, her bf took pictures of the letters she had wrote.
He snooped through her stuff and found them.

The only reason she can think of why he would take pictures is if they ever go to court for custody of their child.
He has made remarks before any of this happened that he would make sure she wouldn't get custody if they ever split up.

How would you feel if this was you?

*refrain from the bashing its not needed nor helpful*
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:55 PM
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sarbear8508
by Platinum Member on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:57 PM
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I think that's a low blow on his end. Obviously she was at her worst then, but thankfully was able to realize that and get help.
KylesWifey
by Go HAWKS!!!! on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:57 PM

Is their relationship rocky ??

mama24sweeties
by on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:59 PM

Um, she can't trust someone who snoops through her stuff. I would ditch him and lie like a son of a btich if that ever came up in court. Fuck that asshole.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 11, 2014 at 12:00 AM
She should probably leave him first and file for emergency custody. Although, if it's been a while, and she can prove that she got the help she needed and all of that, the judge may just dismiss it as old evidence.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 11, 2014 at 12:00 AM
Yes.

Quoting KylesWifey:

Is their relationship rocky ??

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 11, 2014 at 12:01 AM
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Yes, because lying in court could never ever go wrong...

Quoting mama24sweeties:

Um, she can't trust someone who snoops through her stuff. I would ditch him and lie like a son of a btich if that ever came up in court. Fuck that asshole.

Missdameanor
by on Aug. 11, 2014 at 12:01 AM
I think he seriously breached her trust. It's a terrible thing and seems very much like kicking someone when they are down.
mama24sweeties
by on Aug. 11, 2014 at 12:02 AM

True, but he can't prove she wrote them. 

Quoting Anonymous: Yes, because lying in court could never ever go wrong...
Quoting mama24sweeties:

Um, she can't trust someone who snoops through her stuff. I would ditch him and lie like a son of a btich if that ever came up in court. Fuck that asshole.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 11, 2014 at 12:03 AM
It definitely is a low blow.

Instead of truly being there for her, he does this.

Quoting sarbear8508: I think that's a low blow on his end. Obviously she was at her worst then, but thankfully was able to realize that and get help.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 11, 2014 at 12:04 AM
A handwriting analysis can.

Quoting mama24sweeties:

True, but he can't prove she wrote them. 

Quoting Anonymous: Yes, because lying in court could never ever go wrong...

Quoting mama24sweeties:

Um, she can't trust someone who snoops through her stuff. I would ditch him and lie like a son of a btich if that ever came up in court. Fuck that asshole.

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