I have an 11 year old DD who has hit puberty and its been all of a sudden. I have started buying her real bras (no more trainers), taught her how to shave and now she has started her period. My question is when is a good age to teach her to maintain her pubic hair? She doesnt like it but I told her she is too young to mess with it. I was in my late teen before I messed with it and I know my 16 year old shaves hers. My 11 year old is a little immature and I am at a loss as to when a good time to address this with her, Please dont make fun of me, just looking for advice.
ETA: I dont know if this makes a difference or not but my DD is developmentally delayed. She is always looking for reassurance about if she is doing something correct or not. When she was 4 she was mentally 18 months. Since then she graduated therapy and is now on par with her peers. My mom was not around a of when I was a kid so I dont really know how to be a good mom. I am just winging it and praying I am doing ok.