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I know I will get bashed like crazy for this but I have to get it off my chest . Im so upset .

I am Very close to my SIL she is like one of my best friends. 3 Years ago my SIL and my brother had to go help my gma out with bills so they moved in with her . My grandmother is one of the most evil meanest person I know . I don't have much to do with her and I dont bring my kids aroumd her . Anyway . My SIL had a few things in attick she needed to get and asked me to help her . So we went over there and seriously the minute we walked in she started bitching. Anyways . A convo came up between her and my SIL because my grandma needed money and she wanted my brother to give it my sil said she needed to talk to my brother before pulling out the money and my grandma flipped shit and started cussing out my SIL... Everyone knows my SIL has been TTC the past 2 years and has had 3 miscarriages since ... so a decides to throw that in my SIL face and says " for being a bitch she was punished with infertility and that she doesnt deserve to be a mother and my sil breaks down and starts crying and my grandmas laughing .... I blanked out and I freggin SPIT in my grandmothers face ! I got my sister in law in the car and we went to my house I always said spitting was the most nastiest shit u can do to someone but at that point I never heard such a evil thing comeout of ones mouth. Now my aunt is giving me shit cause my gma started shit and now the family is pissed at me .... honestly I dont think what I did was so wrong . I sat there with my sil crying with her about the miscarriages and for her to say something like that was awful !

Vent over . Sorry it is kinda all over the place I am still shaken over the whole situation .
by on Aug. 13, 2014 at 8:49 PM
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jabs54
by Silver Member on Aug. 13, 2014 at 9:23 PM

All I can think is why in the world would your brother and sil move in with her?!

KykysMomma1128
by Gold Member on Aug. 13, 2014 at 9:26 PM
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LOL. I wish I could have seen her face. I bet that shut her up. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Aug. 13, 2014 at 9:33 PM

I have a fucked up family too. I just stay away from all of them.

jkleinman
by Ruby Member on Aug. 13, 2014 at 9:38 PM


Quoting KristaP13:

Geeze, what a mess. Your grandma sounds like a see you next Tuesday. She probably acts that way because no one has ever stood up to her. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Aug. 13, 2014 at 9:39 PM

Show her this video, she will want to say sorry, after watching this.

Quoting Anonymous:

Does she honesty think she's going to heaven saying hateful/wicked things like that? Sounds as if she's going to have a very rude awakening.

Quoting Momma3220: She started crying and saying im going to hell .... *Eyeroll* I just grabbed my SIL and got her in car.
Quoting BrutalTruth: What did she do when you spit in her face? That kind of made me want to punch an old woman.

 

spunknsass
by on Aug. 13, 2014 at 9:43 PM
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I to have worked in a nursing home with horrible aides. I have also worked with horrible patients, like the bitchy old lady who punched the pregnant nurse in the belly screaming "I hope your baby dies!" She had all her faculties, no dementia to blame. Even old people are still human and some of them are horrid people. Not to mention that a lot of them are far from defenseless, if anything healthcare workers are defenseless when we can't restrain them or defend ourselves as they beat on us (ever been hit with a glass cup and have it shatter? not pretty). And if it comes to a healthcare workers word against even a dellusional patient, patient wins even if they're bat shit crazy. Had a male patient who would accuse any male nurses/doctors/aides he saw of touching his penis, some of them got fired becuase of his lies. So no, long story short they're far from sweet innocent and defenseless people. 

Side note: Most patients and many of the elderly are rather good people.

Quoting Anonymous:

That is the most disgusting thing I have read on here. I work in a nursing home with mean aides. How horrible it is to wish that on any elderly person that can't defend themselves.

Quoting spunknsass:

I'd say the old witch deserved it. Maybe she'll end up stuck in a nursing home with horrible aides.


spunknsass
by on Aug. 13, 2014 at 9:45 PM

Thank you haha. It makes me crazy when people think we shouldn't do anything back to the elderly when they're cruel because they're old. The only exception to that is when they have dementia and it's not really their actions. Then, you drug them. I kid. haha

Quoting Momma3220: I Like the way you think ...
Quoting spunknsass:

I'd say the old witch deserved it. Maybe she'll end up stuck in a nursing home with horrible aides.


kahlansmommy
by Bronze Member on Aug. 13, 2014 at 11:49 PM
I probably would have slapped her instead.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Aug. 13, 2014 at 11:58 PM
Sounds like nobody was right in this situation. Except for maybe your SIL, doesn't sound like she did anything awful.
gwebkeijmmm
by Ruby Member on Aug. 14, 2014 at 12:00 AM
Better than punching her in the face.
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