So this might be kind of long, I'll try to keep it short.
Dh and I are about to have our second anniversary on Sept. 8th. He turned 22 a month ago, I'm 19. Dd is 16months. He first cheated the week dd was born, he has done it 7 times since then. I just found the 7th tonight. He's in the army and I'm a sahm.
I can't take this anymore. I've been depressed since dd was born, was on meds for a few months but felt better so I stopped. My counselor was an old man who talked more than listened. He is emotionally and sometimes physically abusive, which wasnt who he was before we got married... He lies and blames everything wrong on me. He ignores dd but I know he loves her. I stuck around this long because she loves him so much and I have to take her away, she won't see her daddy... I will have to move back in with my parents who live 10 hours away.
I'm just so scared. I don't know what else to do. I don't know what I'm going to do. I have no one to talk to about it because of how remote we are and I just made friends even though we've been here for a year. I'm so alone and just needed to vent.
I dont know, any advice is welcome. I already posted in the military page asking if I can report him for adultery, but I dont know how to do any of this. He can't take care of dd, so advice about custody is welcome.