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Update: Abortion today...mixed feelings..lost

Posted by on Aug. 16, 2014 at 9:32 PM
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Update: Well I went through with it I got a D&E. I was in a deep sedation and my stress level went down when there were about 10other girls there in the same waiting room. We all talked together and I felt way better. I was only 11weeks and some girls were about 16weeks+ so my guilt trip wasn't as bad. I'm sore and got the implant in my arm while I was out so I feel better talking about it. However I went to the restroom today and when I wiped there was tissue that still hadn't been removed. There was a sac that looked like a balloon and pieces of little tissue were in there. I didn't know what to do or say. I want to cry so bad but I'm holding myself right now....



OP: I have mixed emotions about the whole thing. Part of me wants it but I know I can't afford it. It's a feeling I don't know how to even describe. I want to cry but then I'm trying to keep it together. Idk how to feel, how do women cope with this? Emotionally I mean?
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U.Wish.bish
by Silver Member on Aug. 16, 2014 at 9:34 PM
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I hope things get better for you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Aug. 16, 2014 at 9:35 PM
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Theres no going back now . whenever you feel bad about it remember that you did what was best for you and your current situation .

Good luck !
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 16, 2014 at 9:36 PM
I don't feel bad for you. What do you expect.
MilkLover0203
by Ruby Member on Aug. 16, 2014 at 9:38 PM
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You realize this isn't an abortion support group, right?
cjsix
by Platinum Member on Aug. 16, 2014 at 9:38 PM
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If you are passing stuff like that you NEED to go to the ER. You should not have tissue left in there it can cause a serious infection!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 16, 2014 at 9:40 PM

I don't have any pity for you, you did this to yourself.

BeAuTiFuL.BLiSs
by Platinum Member on Aug. 16, 2014 at 9:40 PM
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I'm thinking you need to see a doctor. Seriously.

I've had an abortion and bled after, of course. But, definitely didn't experience what you're describing.

I hope one day you're able to make peace with your choice. *hugs*

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 16, 2014 at 9:41 PM
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Although I'm not an expert, I thought that sounded odd too. If you want support, please find another group. This is not the place.

Quoting cjsix:

If you are passing stuff like that you NEED to go to the ER. You should not have tissue left in there it can cause a serious infection!

vegaswife2011
by LMAO on Aug. 16, 2014 at 9:41 PM

Hugs. 

PoisonEyeV
by ☆ No Ragrets ☆ on Aug. 16, 2014 at 9:41 PM
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Best advice? Delete this and talk to someone that will offer you some helpful advice and support.

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