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He wants me to strap it on and do what?

Anonymous
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Last night DH and I were telling each other about our sexual fantasies. He told me that he often fantasied about me fucking him in the butt with a strap on. He says he's not gay for thinking that way and is now mad at me for calling him a fag. 

What would you have done if your DH said that? 

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 16, 2014 at 10:12 PM
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Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Aug. 16, 2014 at 10:14 PM
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I certainly wouldn't have called him a slur.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 16, 2014 at 10:14 PM
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I think you crossed a line by calling him a fag! That was a complete bitch move IMO.. I hope he doesn't fulfill any fantasies you told him
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 16, 2014 at 10:15 PM
I may not be down to do it but I certainly wouldn't call him names or make him feel bad.


Pretty sure this is a troll though
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 16, 2014 at 10:17 PM
I honestly vwould laugh if my husband told me that.
Kimicora
by on Aug. 16, 2014 at 10:17 PM
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Yes, I would have done it, but we're like that we're open for almost everything unless it hurts someone.

I agree with other posters you crossed the line by the name calling... He was admitting something very sensitive to you, you likely made him feel like he can't open up to you.

Texasladybug84
by Platinum Member on Aug. 16, 2014 at 10:19 PM
Asked him what he was on! My hubby's first rule when we got together long ago was no fruits or foreign objects up of near his bung hole lol.
BeAuTiFuL.BLiSs
by Platinum Member on Aug. 16, 2014 at 10:20 PM

My husband wouldn't ask for that. Nor would I be willing, if he ever did. Lol.

If it's something you're not comfortable with. I think you could have used much better words to get the point across. It was nice for him to open up to you. Don't count on that happening anymore... 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Aug. 16, 2014 at 10:21 PM
I wouldn't have called him a fag. I would have laughed because my dh would've have to be drunk or high or being funny to say that.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Aug. 16, 2014 at 10:21 PM
Wow calling him names is a bit much. A mans prostrate is basically like a g-spot, I have a lot of straight male friends who like anal play.
vegaswife2011
by LMAO on Aug. 16, 2014 at 10:22 PM

Tactfully told him no. 

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