One day these children are going be adults, adult out on the world, working, driving etx.. the same world we are all in. And the need to learn how to function . They will never know how to function if they are kept isolated. If you don't have a sn child you will not understand. Those of us who do have sn children work hard to help our children so they can function in the real world. All because they were born with a certain disability or disorder doesn't make them any less deserving.