Recently my bio dad (sperm donor) contacted me. I haven't spoken to him since he got out of prison. I decided when dd was born that he wasn't someone I wanted in her life. He is a drug addict, a woman beater, psychotic asshole, who is constantly making racial comments about my dh to my sisters. So he calls me today and asks for money. I told him no and he got mad.
He said what have I ever done to you. I said really, you beat my mom, sisters and I. You call my dh names because he's Mexican, you abandoned me when I was 5, you sponge off your kids and take food out of your grand kids mouths. I told him he's one of the reasons I don't go to my hometown to visit family.
So later today this is what he sends me on FB.
hey u fucking nigger. i'll thank u kindly not to put my name out of your mouth u little bitch or the next time u are down here I will slap the piss out of your mouth... u fucking immoral piece of shit u and that nigger kid of yours are in the right place, with that dropout buster bitch of yours and I already talked to a few under cover home boys who live right there a mile away so I will be reaching out to your nigger oldman he wont even see it coming bitch god im glad your not my kid u back stabbing little bitch. fuck you like I did your mother u fuck gutter tramp. you forget .your just a bitch u fuckig little whore and u better hope im full of shit because I just renounced our relationship and from u on will be kaos havick dread. good luck and remember this day. For u fucked your whole family.
What should I do?
I went to the police station and showed them the messages, they said there wasn't anything they could do unless he made physical contact. So I went and bought locks, I put slide bolt locks on my doors and extra window locks. I already have a security system so that helps.
I also put his messages on my FB status for my family to see. On Monday I'm going to the court house to see about a restraining order. Hopefully I'm able to get one. I told dh about the situation and he was livid (to say the least). He got off parole last year, or i would have contacted the parole officer.