I had been dating this guy. He seemed really sweet and respectful. Things were starting to get a little more serious, although I had not slept with him yet. He was ok with waiting for me to be ready to take that next step. I had gotten really flirtatious and sent him a couple of racy pics. No nudes, nothing way over the top, basically just a boob shot in a sexy bra.
Well, he was away for the weekend with some friends and texted out of the blue to ask me if I could ever be Bi. I said no, just not for for me but that was kind of a random question. Then I joked with him and asked if one woman wasn't enough for him. He said yeah, but one of the people there was bi and she liked the pic I had sent him.
I kinda flipped out on him for showing that pic around. He knew it was supposed to be private. I told him he had really betrayed my trust by showing it to anyone else and that he didn't have to worry about me sending him anything like that again. It made me feel really disrespected. Did I over react?
**So, I just talked to him. The best I got was "Sorry, she saw it when we were playing with my phone." Then he sent me a pic of her, I guess it was supposed to be tit for tat (pun not intended) I got the feeling that we needed better clarification of what our relationship was. So I let him know this kind of thing wasn't ok, and that I'm not into bringing other people into the bedroom (in case that was what he was thinking) or having an open relationship. So I'm either his friend or his girlfriend. His response was "Ok, I'll say hi if we see each other at games." (our kids play in the same little league organization) I know it was right for things to end, but it still hurts :(
Just wanted to say thanks for the responses and support ladies!