I have done half the driving for the past 7 years we have been divorced. We do not have a set visitation schedule because his work schedule changes weekly. Sometimes he sees them once a month, sometimes it is 3 weekends in a row. We live 1.5 hours away from each other. His DF had a baby and is a SAHM now so this summer he has wanted them a lot since she is home to watch them. As I was driving home from dropping them to him yesterday I started getting all annoyed at the time, energy, and money it takes me to do that drive on a weekly basis. He doesn't do half of anything else so why should I do half the driving? He doesn't bring them to doc appointments, stay home from work when they are sick, get them to school every day, go to parent/teachers conferences, drive them to practice or friend's houses etc. I do all of that and still get stuck with a 3 hr drive each week lately. How would you feel about that situation?