This past weekend, my daughter had one of her best friends sleep over. Like her boyfriend, I also really like this girl and I am friendly with her mother. The girls go back and forth between my house and the girl's home for sleepovers on the weekends. This weekend, I felt pretty crappy so I spend most of the weekend lying down (I had a bit of a bug). Well I guess dd and her friend thought I was dead asleep because they decided to take a shower together. I went downstairs to get a drink and when I came back up, I heard moans and groans like what you would hear from sex. I went into my room quickly and I remained quiet until they left. I didn't want to have to face her after that. She texted me a little while later and let me know she would be home later tonight.
I feel so awkward about this whole situation. Do I confront her? Do I just let it go? I'm not too happy about the fact she was fooling around in our family shower, regardless of the other person being male or female. I don't want to embarrass her either. I have had the safe sex talk numerous times with dd so she knows she can come to me. I feel bad for her boyfriend as well. Luckily, dh wasn't home when this happened. Any advice on how I should approach this? In any other circumstance, I would mind my own business but this took place in my home and I don't agree with it. Do you think my daughter is a lesbian or just experiementing?