Im so lost on what to do ladies. Shes always been a happy go lucky girl, a wild fire and had a sparkle in her eyes that made anyone smile. Ever since she started dating a new guy ive HARDLY seen her. And when I do she is always in baggy clothes and very quiet. She seems very sad and distant. Her best friend contacted me and told me she fears the same thing. We had planned to talk to her together and THAT didn't go as planned. Sge never once.denied that she is being controlled or anything but she told us to stay out of hwr business and that she can handle things herself. We both saw an obvious black eye that she attempted to cover with makeup. My heart is breaking and I dont know what to do to help my baby.