my dad doesn't want me to go to my grandfather's funeral
He even had my mom call me to tell me not to bother. She said, "I'm not trying to talk you out of going, just trying to explain why your dad said that"
I want to go, I just feel like I would be unwelcome. I will be the only one not there. My cousins will be there, why shouldn't I go? Especially since I can go, there's nothing stopping my ability to go.