My family lives far away so we don't get to see them often. My brother got married a month after our son was born but my husband didn't want to fly with a 4 week old baby...too many germs. So we missed it. My family is here for family reunions (they come out once a year) but we didn't go because one was an hour away (on the freeway) and the other was 30 minutes away up a canyon (camping). He didn't want us to go because he was afraid of traveling on busy roads with a 4 month old. Now my family wants us to come to my grandparents house but he says no way because it's 30 minutes on the freeway and it's supposed to rain. My husband loves us and I know he just wants to keep us protected and safe...but I feel like it's a bit overboard. Especially since my family is only out here once a year. I want us to stay safe but I also want to see my family and have them spend time with our baby while they are here. Am I just being too lax about traveling with him??