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Once a cheater always a cheater?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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This I will never believe. I've cheated in the past but will never do it now.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 23, 2014 at 11:32 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 23, 2014 at 11:33 PM
Bump
sunsetchick34
by Gold Member on Aug. 23, 2014 at 11:33 PM
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Good you have grown and matured. People cheat for various reasons.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 23, 2014 at 11:34 PM
I agree I did it in the past but I have been with df for almost 4 years and have never cheated nor feel the need to.
KristenFowles
by Ruby Member on Aug. 23, 2014 at 11:34 PM
No.

But twice a cheater.. Three times a cheater.. Probably always a cheater.
Nikki286
by Tosya on Aug. 23, 2014 at 11:35 PM
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how do you know you wont ever do it again? you did it once whose to say you wouldn't be tempted to do it again given the right situation

SciFiMama91
by Gold Member on Aug. 23, 2014 at 11:35 PM
*climbs in your boat*
smalltownteddy
by Fletcher on Aug. 23, 2014 at 11:36 PM
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Anyone is capable. It takes commitment and maturity to stay faithful. Just because someone did before doesn't mean they -have to- again. I feel like that phrase is a cop-out for repeat cheaters.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 23, 2014 at 11:37 PM
I did it when I was young and my bf was a cheater. Now I would just leave if I'm unhappy.

Quoting Nikki286:

how do you know you wont ever do it again? you did it once whose to say you wouldn't be tempted to do it again given the right situation

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 23, 2014 at 11:37 PM
People cheat for many reasons...
I have.
Hated it. Makes me feel like a terrible person, was a battle I fought with myself...
I never want to put myself in such a situation again.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 23, 2014 at 11:39 PM
Which is why I think it's stupid for people to say one time and I'm gone.

Quoting smalltownteddy: Anyone is capable. It takes commitment and maturity to stay faithful. Just because someone did before doesn't mean they -have to- again. I feel like that phrase is a cop-out for repeat cheaters.
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