So we are going to DisneyWorld next weekend. He wanted to take his three kids. I said fuck no!!!! I don't want to deal with 8 kids. 5? That's fine but not 8.
Plus the prices are high and the girls are getting the full disney princess dress up experience. His dd would cost us a lot to add to that. Btw, our girls are going to be Merida, Snow White, Rapunzel, and Belle, YAY!!!!
He got pissy when I jokingly suggested his dd could be Cinderella before the godmother showed up in the tattered pink dress! Hahaha.
Plus we are going to buy lunch and dinner there and snacks and souvenirs and we can't afford to bring the others.
----- so I realized you were all thinking I was mean. So we made a compromise dh agreed to.
My girls won't be getting the deluxe princess package just the reg package and I won't get it at all, (so sad I was excited to be dressed as Jasmine). His kids will get mouse ears, and a beach towel. It's not the same as going but we ARE thinking of them and sacrificing to get them a couple of things. I may even get them each photo prints of the photos we take.