My husband does not want to wake up for the midnight feedings and changes! He never did it with our ds, even when I was sick, but I was not working then. Ds didn't sleep through the night until close to a year. Now I work third shift 2-3 days a week. I don't get off till 7:30am. He wants me to to hire a sitter for the new baby for the time I am at work even though he will be in the next room sleeping so he don't have to wake. He said he don't care if the sitter sleeps as long as they wake up to care for the baby when needed. Is this something you would do/ agree to? How much would you pay a sitter that is only doing any "real" work approx. every 2-3 hours?