We already have an old mattress down there so I wasn't going to take her whole room set down and find out she wasn't ready for the change.
So I threw the mattress down on the floor with her covers and pillows on top. Set her all up downstairs. I sent dh a picture of sd sleeping (hes at work) he post on Facebook "trying out her new room". His ex wife text me and asked why I was being so neglectful and making her baby sleep on the floor. I tried to explain and she just wouldn't have it. She insisted that if sd cant have her whole set to try out the room then it's not the same and I'm being neglectful by letting her sleep on the floor. I ignored her but part of me wonders if others would think im being neglectful?