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He was a means to an end and nothing more than that

Anonymous
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So I met a sperm donor online... we did the BD 2-3 days before I ovulated... Well AF isnt due yet but im really thinking it worked... At first I was going to tell him... but he made a comment about wanting a baby and family in the next year that has me worried he might try for custody or something... he has no children... and he knows in advance that i want to be a single mom...

The time we BD was the only time we ever met in person. I want to tell him that I didnt get pregnant and defriend him on facebook and block his phone number because now hes starting to contact me to see if "OUR child" Was conceived... OUR... im freaked out...

He was supposed to be nothing but a sperm donor and now Im afraid he wants more...


Am I wrong to lie to him??? 

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 30, 2014 at 8:45 PM
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faire_jour
by Ruby Member on Aug. 30, 2014 at 8:46 PM

Does he know he was a sperm donor?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 30, 2014 at 8:47 PM

Absolutely... I met him on a donation website

Quoting faire_jour:

Does he know he was a sperm donor?


EAzizM
by Erica on Aug. 30, 2014 at 8:48 PM
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I'd be more concerned about whether you caught something. Gag.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 30, 2014 at 8:48 PM
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Why didn't you do this with legal paperwork???
sunsetchick34
by Silver Member on Aug. 30, 2014 at 8:48 PM
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Yea you are wrong. Every man needs to know if they have a child out there, same for the child.
faire_jour
by Ruby Member on Aug. 30, 2014 at 8:49 PM
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Well, then tell him you got your period, have him sign something saying he doesn't want rights, do him again, and claim you got pregnant the second time.

Quoting Anonymous 1:

Absolutely... I met him on a donation website

Quoting faire_jour:

Does he know he was a sperm donor?



MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Aug. 30, 2014 at 8:49 PM
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 People are getting sperm this way?? From a website?

strongforthem
by Platinum Member on Aug. 30, 2014 at 8:50 PM
SMH
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Aug. 30, 2014 at 8:50 PM

I should have... I was under the impression he was going to donate and then never wantd to have any contact until after the child turned 18 IF they wanted to seek him out... i was stupid...

Quoting Anonymous 2: Why didn't you do this with legal paperwork???


MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Aug. 30, 2014 at 8:50 PM

 

Quoting sunsetchick34: Yea you are wrong. Every man needs to know if they have a child out there, same for the child.

 Even when done through a legit sperm bank? I don't think so.

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