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His Girlfriend and My daughter.. DRAMA

Posted by on Sep. 3, 2014 at 10:34 PM
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DD's biodad and I are friends on Facebook. We get along great. I take pics of her and tag him. Because duh.. he is her dad. Him and his GF have been on and off through the 4 years they have been together.. but recently engaged.

ANYWHO- I found the cutest pics of when my DD was a year old (She will be 8 this year). His girlfriend messages me on Facebook and tells me "I would appreciate if you would tag me in the pictures of your daughter too. I feel like an outsider."

My instinct was to tell her to get over herself. She isn't her stepmom. To be honest it was petty Facebook drama that  shouldn't have been brought up. She said she has a right to be tagged.. Bitch.. NO YOU DON'T. YOU ARE "JUST DADS GIRLFRIEND" . You are NUTS!

I mean to be honest- I didn't do it on purpose. It didn't even hit me to tag her. I told her if it happened again I would delete her because I am not obligated to share anything with her. I am not making a deal of it that she is posting pics on her page of my kid and not tagging me..

How would you have reacted?



by on Sep. 3, 2014 at 10:34 PM
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BEXi
by BEXi on Sep. 3, 2014 at 10:36 PM
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I wouldve ignored the message and request.
Jennyanne322
by Ruby Member on Sep. 3, 2014 at 10:36 PM
I think you handled it well, but be prepared for her starting a shit storm with your ex.
bbrown0603
by Bronze Member on Sep. 3, 2014 at 10:37 PM
We were already friends on there. We've got along great till now.

Quoting BEXi: I wouldve ignored the message and request.
BrutalTruth
by urbullyisshowing on Sep. 3, 2014 at 10:37 PM
I would have laughed and ignored her.
owl0210
by Emerald Member on Sep. 3, 2014 at 10:38 PM
I would've told her to fuck off.
bbrown0603
by Bronze Member on Sep. 3, 2014 at 10:38 PM
Already txt him. He said its between her and I. He wants no part.

Quoting Jennyanne322: I think you handled it well, but be prepared for her starting a shit storm with your ex.
rfhsure
by beast mode on Sep. 3, 2014 at 10:39 PM
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That's so dumb. You're not wrong.
BEXi
by BEXi on Sep. 3, 2014 at 10:39 PM
Okay? I wouldve still ignored the message. As in not replied.

Quoting bbrown0603: We were already friends on there. We've got along great till now.

Quoting BEXi: I wouldve ignored the message and request.
cntrdmom
by Ruby Member on Sep. 3, 2014 at 10:40 PM
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I would simply tell her I only tag her dad because he is her father. I don't feel like tagging 15 damn people. She is sort of included through that by being with him but I'm not going out of my way. That's such petty shit.
cntrdmom
by Ruby Member on Sep. 3, 2014 at 10:41 PM
Then again I don't always tag my dh in the kids' pics though. Lol.
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