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have had 2 abortions

Anonymous
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ive had two abortions....I regret both of them everyday. I was with the same guy for 7 years and both were with him. I have been with my current boyfriend for over a year. We dont use protection, we arent necessarily trying to get pregnant but we arent avoiding it. After over a year of unprotected sex, I have yet to get pregnant. Now I am worried that because of the abortions, something is wrong. Anyone have any advice/simliar experience?

Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 23, 2014 at 12:30 AM
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dorothycapalit
by Bronze Member on Sep. 23, 2014 at 12:34 AM
I am sorry for what you are going through.
Prayers and hugs. Hope you can get pregnant soon.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 23, 2014 at 12:37 AM

Thank you so much. I know he wants more kids and so do I...

Quoting dorothycapalit: I am sorry for what you are going through. Prayers and hugs. Hope you can get pregnant soon.


mammabear87
by on Sep. 23, 2014 at 12:39 AM

Maybe his soilders don't march?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 23, 2014 at 12:41 AM
Try charting and planning. If it doesn't work after a couple months, both of you should get tested
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 23, 2014 at 12:41 AM

I was thinking that except he has a child...thinking maybe his lifestyle choices ( smoking, drinking) may have something to do with it...?

Quoting mammabear87:

Maybe his soilders don't march?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 23, 2014 at 12:41 AM
But I also think this is sort of karma..
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 23, 2014 at 12:42 AM

Ive used a fertilty app on my iphone however I dont think its that accuarate

Quoting Anonymous 2: Try charting and planning. If it doesn't work after a couple months, both of you should get tested


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 23, 2014 at 12:44 AM
It probably is. Mine was for me. I used fertility friend. I checked ovulation signs too and it always was accurate

Quoting Anonymous 1:

Ive used a fertilty app on my iphone however I dont think its that accuarate

Quoting Anonymous 2: Try charting and planning. If it doesn't work after a couple months, both of you should get tested

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Sep. 23, 2014 at 12:45 AM
That sucks. Are you sure you are ready for one?
hautemama83
by on Sep. 23, 2014 at 12:45 AM
Sorry I can't relate past having an abortion. Hopefully you find some peace. Also smoking and drinking can lower fertility in men. So it may be him and not you at all.
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