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how did you feel?

Anonymous
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If you've had an abortion, how did you feel afterwards, both physically and emotionally? How old were you when you had it, and how long has it been? Any long term problems, either physically or emotionally?
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 15, 2014 at 9:51 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Oct. 15, 2014 at 9:56 PM
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I felt amazing afterwards. Less stressed. No more worry. Life went on.

outtamymynd
by Ruby Member on Oct. 15, 2014 at 9:56 PM
I was fine. It was 11 years ago. No long or short term issues.
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Imperfect_Faith
by on Oct. 15, 2014 at 9:57 PM
Physically, I was fine. I had some minor cramping the day of, and some spotting for about 2 days, but nothing major. Emotionally, I was relieved. I was so happy it was over and done with. I was 16 years old, 13 weeks along, and I'm 25 now. No issues, either physically or emotionally.
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livingforthem83
by on Oct. 15, 2014 at 9:58 PM

20, and no emotions or long time problems. It was something that was necessary at that time in my life. I am now 31 and have had 3 children after. There are no long term problems. But, since I have gotten older, I realize that that is not a decision that I will ever make again, regardless of the circumstances.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Oct. 15, 2014 at 9:59 PM

bcoll
by on Oct. 15, 2014 at 10:01 PM

 I haven't had one. Here's a bump.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Oct. 15, 2014 at 10:02 PM

I regret it 21 yrs later. I was forced by my parents. I would have a 21 yr old right now. It hurts my heart that I murdered my baby.

tinybluemoon
by on Oct. 15, 2014 at 10:02 PM
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I've had two and I felt completely fine, mentally and physically, both times. No regrets to think of, the only time I even think of them is on these posts.

I was 29 and 39. Married to the fathers. 19 and 11 weeks. I'm 40 now.
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