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Posted by on Nov. 4, 2014 at 2:44 AM
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Ok so my husband has been kind of on his phone a lot lately and I just checked his email which I never do I trust him! Or at least I use to... found that he has online cheating accounts. How do I handle this?
by on Nov. 4, 2014 at 2:44 AM
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drowningmama
by on Nov. 4, 2014 at 2:48 AM
What! How do you ladies get in this position?
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oklamomma83
by on Nov. 4, 2014 at 2:54 AM
I have no idea! This is a first for me lol I'm in shock!

Quoting drowningmama: What! How do you ladies get in this position?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Nov. 4, 2014 at 2:55 AM
Don't ask or judge. Just pray you don't get into such a position one day.

Quoting drowningmama: What! How do you ladies get in this position?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 4, 2014 at 2:55 AM
I didn't think I'd get in that position either, but I found out my husband has been sleeping with a coworker for a year. I was totally clueless. I trusted him 100%

Quoting drowningmama: What! How do you ladies get in this position?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 4, 2014 at 2:56 AM

has he cheated on you in the past? can you look at bank records and credit card statements to see if there is any unusual charges something that would be out of the ordinary from what he normally would buy like hotel or eating out or out of town charges. are there any messages in these accounts like hes actually hooking up with these women? 

ballerina18
by on Nov. 4, 2014 at 2:56 AM

Talk to your DH. No games...just ask him. Communication is key.

Good luck!

JCKitten87
by Platinum Member on Nov. 4, 2014 at 2:56 AM
Is there anything you want to do?
oklamomma83
by on Nov. 4, 2014 at 3:00 AM
No nothing like that... well that I know of. I went on the website and he was logged on still. He didn't have messages that had him cheating just a profile set up.

Quoting Anonymous 3:

has he cheated on you in the past? can you look at bank records and credit card statements to see if there is any unusual charges something that would be out of the ordinary from what he normally would buy like hotel or eating out or out of town charges. are there any messages in these accounts like hes actually hooking up with these women? 

oklamomma83
by on Nov. 4, 2014 at 3:01 AM
Good idea

Quoting ballerina18:

Talk to your DH. No games...just ask him. Communication is key.

Good luck!

oklamomma83
by on Nov. 4, 2014 at 3:03 AM
At this point? Maybe punch him in the dick! Lol

Quoting JCKitten87: Is there anything you want to do?
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