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would you divorce for this?

Anonymous
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Im married, but not to my sons father. My son is 12 and it has been a bitter battle since he was 6. My husband is a decent guy and loves my son. His father has primary custody, pretty much because he can afford a lawyer and I cant. Tonight My son concocted a story that he wanted to be with me and his dad 50/50. He then called his dad and begged him to say no. His dad then told me what was said and my son admitted to lying. And swears up and down that he hates my husband (4yrs) and wants 50/50 but only if I leave my husband. What would you do im torn. I dont know if this is a lie too.
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 8, 2014 at 9:22 PM
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Sara-1989
by on Nov. 8, 2014 at 9:24 PM
No. Probably not.

Although I'd never not have my kids with me.
kmorales7690
by Ruby Member on Nov. 8, 2014 at 9:26 PM
This

Quoting Sara-1989: No. Probably not.

Although I'd never not have my kids with me.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 8, 2014 at 9:27 PM
What she said

Quoting Sara-1989: No. Probably not.

Although I'd never not have my kids with me.
lollip0p
by Ruby Member on Nov. 8, 2014 at 9:27 PM

No, I wouldn't. Your son is unsettled enough. This wouldn't solve anything. I'd work on building his relationship with his stepfather.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 8, 2014 at 9:28 PM
I have my son. Just not 50/50. And my husband wasnt an issue before. I mean he treats my son great, and does things with him. Maybe its just a person he doesnt like for no reason. Ive never seen my husband treat him badly or anything. And my son claims he isnt bad to him

Quoting Sara-1989: No. Probably not.

Although I'd never not have my kids with me.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 8, 2014 at 9:28 PM
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No. Your child needs therapy
DanaG70
by Ruby Member on Nov. 8, 2014 at 9:28 PM
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No, your son is playing games with you and your ex. I'd tell him to stop it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 8, 2014 at 9:29 PM
My husband tries, my son wont give him the time of day. Im out of ideas

Quoting lollip0p:

No, I wouldn't. Your son is unsettled enough. This wouldn't solve anything. I'd work on building his relationship with his stepfather.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 8, 2014 at 9:29 PM
No. I would never give my kids that much control over my life and I would be very disappointed with him for being a liar and manipulative.
janedoe13
by boxerdog lover on Nov. 8, 2014 at 9:30 PM

what they said.

Quoting Anonymous 3: No. Your child needs therapy


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