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Do I need to tell him this before we marry? I don't see why ?_?

Anonymous
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Why does my soon to be DH need to know that I've slept with a girl once? Unless I am currently doing it I don't see why he needs to know but a few ladies here on CM disagree vehemently. So opinions?

ETA: It was when I was 18, years before I even met him.

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:51 AM
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alexsmomaubrys2
by on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:53 AM
Why wouldn't you tell him? Why is it a big deal?
Amybelle
by on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:53 AM
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eventually you'll be drunk off your ass and tell him hoping to impress him.......might as well get it over with now

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:54 AM
I'm not touching this one. It's late, my thumb already hurts.

NEXT!
threat
by Gold Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:54 AM
I don't think it matters so you shouldn't have to tell him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:55 AM
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You don't have to tell him. In fact I would advise you not to or he might spend the next ten years begging you to do it again (while he watches of course).
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:56 AM
Why not tell him?
Amybelle
by on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:57 AM

ehhhhhhhhh ..........she's get drunk & horny & "fess-up" hoping to impress him,,,,,,,,,,,,

Quoting Anonymous 3: You don't have to tell him. In fact I would advise you not to or he might spend the next ten years begging you to do it again (while he watches of course).


Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 1:59 AM
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You don't feel like you can tell him you probably shouldn't marry him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Nov. 24, 2014 at 2:00 AM

Would you want him to tell you if he slept with a man?

BrittSam2011
by Ruby Member on Nov. 24, 2014 at 2:03 AM

My DH knows the name of everyone I've slept with as I know everyone he has been with. I thought that was a standard conversation people have before getting married.

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